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Singles Ages 28-44 Scottsdale Speed Dating by Pre-Dating, Arizona at Putting World  in Scottsdale, AZ

Singles Ages 28-44 Scottsdale Speed Dating by Pre-Dating, Arizona

  Thursday October 15, 2026      7:30 PM    

  Putting World
   16259 N Scottsdale Rd
   Scottsdale, AZ 85254

Speed Dating in Scottsdale, AZ ♥ Join us for a fun and engaging evening of speed dating created exclusively for single professionals ages 28 to 44 at Putting World. With its energetic atmosphere and welcoming vibe, this event is all about real conversations, real people, and the possibility of a genuine spark. You will enjoy a series of relaxed one-on-one chats designed to make connecting easy and natural without the awkwardness of endless messaging or forced small talk. Why you will love it: Meet multiple local singles in one night Enjoy authentic conversations in a lively setting Expand your social circle in a fun, effortless way No apps, no swiping, just real face-to-face connection Whether youre searching for romance, new friendships, or simply a memorable night out, this is your chance to meet like-minded people who share your energy and are open to something new. Space is limited, so reserve your spot today and see where the night leads. ♥
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Scottsdale Speed Dating Event for Singles Ages 45+ by Pre-Dating, Arizona at Putting World  in Scottsdale, AZ

Scottsdale Speed Dating Event for Singles Ages 45+ by Pre-Dating, Arizona

  Thursday October 15, 2026      5:30 PM    

  Putting World
   16259 N Scottsdale Rd
   Scottsdale, AZ 85254

Speed Dating in Scottsdale, AZ ♥ Join us for a fun and engaging speed dating event for single professionals ages 45 and up at Putting World in Scottsdale, hosted by PreDating. This lively evening offers a relaxed, low-pressure way to meet local singles face-to-face and enjoy genuine conversation in a welcoming atmosphere. You will take part in a series of brief, meaningful conversations designed to help you sense chemistry naturally without awkward small talk or endless messaging. It is a refreshing alternative to dating apps and a chance to connect with real people in person. Whether you are hoping to spark a romance, make new friends, or simply enjoy a fun night out, this event creates the perfect setting for authentic interaction and exciting new possibilities. With limited tickets available, now is the perfect time to step away from the screens and experience a more natural way to meet someone new. One great conversation could lead to something truly special. ♥
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Phoenix Speed Dating Event for Singles Ages 40 Plus by Pre-Dating Arizona at GenuWine Arizona in Phoenix, AZ

Phoenix Speed Dating Event for Singles Ages 40 Plus by Pre-Dating Arizona

  Sunday October 18, 2026      2:00 PM    

  GenuWine Arizona
   888 N 1st Ave
   Suite 101
   Phoenix, AZ 85003

Speed Dating in Phoenix, AZ ♥ Speed Dating for Singles 40+ in Phoenix is here! Join us at GenuWine in downtown Phoenix for a fun and memorable evening hosted by PreDating Speed Dating. This fast-paced, enjoyable format makes it easy to meet new people in a short amount of time. Throughout the night, you will connect with several potential matches, each during a brief conversation that gives you just enough time to feel out the chemistry and see if you want to continue chatting. What makes it great: Meet people face-to-face in a warm, relaxed setting Expand your social circle beyond apps and traditional dating Enjoy a friendly, engaging environment designed to spark real connections Do not miss a night filled with conversation, energy, and new opportunities to connect. Reserve your spot today - tickets are limited! ♥
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Phoenix Speed Dating Event for Singles Ages 20s/30s by Pre-Dating Arizona at GenuWine Arizona in Phoenix, AZ

Phoenix Speed Dating Event for Singles Ages 20s/30s by Pre-Dating Arizona

  Sunday October 18, 2026      5:00 PM    

  GenuWine Arizona
   888 N 1st Ave
   Suite 101
   Phoenix, AZ 85003

Speed Dating in Phoenix, AZ ♥ Make New Connections at Speed Dating in Phoenix! Join us at GenuWine in downtown Phoenix for a lively evening of Speed Dating designed for singles in their 20s and 30s, hosted by PreDating Speed Dating. This fun, fast-moving format makes it easy to meet several potential matches in just one night. Each brief conversation gives you the perfect opportunity to see if there is a spark, all without pressure or awkwardness. It is a simple, enjoyable way to get to know new people face-to-face. What you can look forward to: Genuine conversations in a warm, welcoming environment A fun way to expand your social circle A relaxed atmosphere that encourages natural, meaningful connections Do not miss an evening filled with energy, conversation, and exciting possibilities. Reserve your spot today - space is limited! ♥
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Lock and Key Singles Event Phoenix/Scottsdale Arizona

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   Phoenix/Scottsdale LOCK & KEY Singles Party

  Wednesday October 28, 2026      7:00 PM

  HALLOWEEN LOCK & KEY SINGLES EVENT at Châm Pang Lanes - Costumes Optional but Highly Encouraged
   903 N 2nd St
   Phoenix, AZ 85004

Our larger singles party - meet even more people then Speed Dating. Lock & KeyTM Event in Phoenix, AZ, the FUN way to socialize, make new friends, meet your match… or just have a great time! Woman get a Lock and men get a Key. Meet and mingle as you unlock and get tickets for a prize drawing at the end... but the real prize is all the new people you'll meet! Invite your fun single friends in Phoenix, buy your ticket, and join us to meet local singles, Wednesday October 28th at HALLOWEEN LOCK & KEY SINGLES EVENT at Châm Pang Lanes - Costumes Optional but Highly Encouraged. * This is the REAL, Trademarked, Lock & Key Event: Don't be fooled by illegal copycats.

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SPECIAL EVENT: Phoenix Arizona Singles Mingle Ages 25-45 ~ by Pre-Dating at Provision in Phoenix, AZ

SPECIAL EVENT: Phoenix Arizona Singles Mingle Ages 25-45 ~ by Pre-Dating

  Friday November 6, 2026      6:00 PM    

  Provision
   711 E Missouri Ave
   Ste 115
   Phoenix, AZ 85014

Singles Mixer in Phoenix, AZ ♥ Join Us for a Single Mixer at Provision in Midtown Phoenix, Az! Looking to meet new people and enjoy a night out? Join us for a friendly, fun Single Mixer Night! What to Expect: Icebreaker Games: Fun activities to help you mingle and make connections. Prizes & Giveaways: Exciting prizes for the best icebreaker participants. Why Attend? Meet like-minded singles in a relaxed and friendly atmosphere. Make new friends and maybe even find that special someone! Do not miss an evening filled with energy, interaction, and exciting new connections. Reserve your spot today and take the first step toward a night you will not forget. ♥
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THURSDAY CHANDLER SINGLES MIXER Event for Singles Ages 30s & 40s by Pre-Dating, Arizona at SanTan Gardens in Chandler, AZ

THURSDAY CHANDLER SINGLES MIXER Event for Singles Ages 30s & 40s by Pre-Dating, Arizona

  Thursday November 12, 2026      6:00 PM    

  SanTan Gardens
   495 E Warner Rd
   Chandler, AZ 85225

Singles Mixer in Chandler, AZ ♥ JJoin us for an unforgettable Social Mixer for singles in their 30s & 40s, hosted by PreDating at SanTan Gardens in Chandler, AZ. This lively, lowpressure evening is designed to help you meet new people through interactive icebreaker games, engaging activities, and exciting prize giveaways. Enjoy a relaxed, welcoming atmosphere where conversations flow naturally and genuine connections take shape. Whether you are hoping to spark romance or simply expand your social circle, this mixer offers a refreshing, facetoface way to meet local singles - no apps, no swiping, just real interactions. Tickets are limited, so reserve yours soon. We cannot wait to see who you will meet. ♥
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SPECIAL EVENT: AUTISM New Connections MIXER for Phoenix ASD People Age 21-44 Sponsored by SARRC at Southwest Autism Research & Resource Center SARRC in Phoenix, AZ

SPECIAL EVENT: AUTISM New Connections MIXER for Phoenix ASD People Age 21-44 Sponsored by SARRC

  Friday November 13, 2026      4:00 PM    

  Southwest Autism Research & Resource Center SARRC
   300 N. 18th St.
   Phoenix, AZ 85006

Social Event in Phoenix, AZ ♥ SPECIAL EVENT: AUTISM New Connections MIXER for Phoenix ASD People Age 21-44. Sponsored by Southwest Autism Research & Resource Center (SARRC) in partnership with Pre-Dating. Time: 4:00 PM 6:00 PM Location: Southwest Autism Research & Resource Center (SARRC) 300 N. 18th St., Phoenix, AZ 85006 (Corner of Van Buren & 18th Street. Free parking available behind the building.) Looking to make new connections in a welcoming and supportive environment? Join us for an engaging social mixer designed specifically for adults on the autism spectrum. This event provides a comfortable, structured opportunity to connect with others, practice social skills, and build meaningful friendships and connections through shared interests and activities. What to Expect: -Guided Small-Group Conversations - Enjoy low-pressure discussions centered around common interests and easy conversation prompts. Interactive Activity Tables: -Board Games & Icebreakers (Guess Who, Catch Phrase, and more) -Gardening & Plant Propagation -Sports, Statistics & Trivia -Themed activity tables make it easier to meet people with similar interests and help conversations flow naturally. Raffle Prizes! Participate for a chance to win fun giveaways throughout the event. Sensory-Friendly Environment: A calm, supportive setting with space to take breaks and participate at your own pace. Why Attend? -Meet people who share similar interests and experiences - Build friendships in a structured, supportive setting - Enjoy activities that make starting conversations easier -Participate at your own comfort levelno pressure - Expand your social circle in a welcoming community Registration Required ♥
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PHOENIX SINGLES MIXER Event for Singles Ages 40s, 50s & 60s by Pre-Dating, Arizona at Hearsay in Phoenix, AZ

PHOENIX SINGLES MIXER Event for Singles Ages 40s, 50s & 60s by Pre-Dating, Arizona

  Tuesday December 1, 2026      6:00 PM    

  Hearsay
   2501 E Camelback Rd
   Ste 10
   Phoenix, AZ 85016

Singles Mixer in Phoenix, AZ ♥ Meet local singles in their 40s, 50s, and 60s at a fun Social Mixer hosted by Pre-Dating at Hearsay! This lively, low-pressure evening makes meeting new people easy, natural, and enjoyable. Skip traditional speed-dating rounds and enjoy interactive icebreakers, fun activities, and exciting prize giveaways that create plenty of opportunities to mingle and connect. Whether you are hoping to spark romance, make new friends, or expand your social circle, this is a refreshing way to meet local singles face-to-face. Forget the apps, endless swiping, and awkward online chats. Enjoy genuine conversations, real connections, and a welcoming atmosphere where anything can happen. Space is limited, so reserve your spot today. Come ready to laugh, mingle, and meet someone new. Why not give it a try and open the door to possibility? ♥
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Lock and Key Singles Event Phoenix/Scottsdale Arizona

SPECIAL EVENT:
   Phoenix/Scottsdale LOCK & KEY Singles Party

  Friday December 4, 2026      6:00 PM

  HOLIDAY LOCK & KEY SINGLES Party at Provision -- Ugly Sweaters Encouraged!
   711 E Missouri Ave
   Phoenix, AZ 85014

Our larger singles party - meet even more people then Speed Dating. Lock & KeyTM Event in Phoenix, AZ, the FUN way to socialize, make new friends, meet your match… or just have a great time! Woman get a Lock and men get a Key. Meet and mingle as you unlock and get tickets for a prize drawing at the end... but the real prize is all the new people you'll meet! Invite your fun single friends in Phoenix, buy your ticket, and join us to meet local singles, Friday December 4th at HOLIDAY LOCK & KEY SINGLES Party at Provision -- Ugly Sweaters Encouraged!. * This is the REAL, Trademarked, Lock & Key Event: Don't be fooled by illegal copycats.

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Is Phoenix/Scottsdale a good place to be single?

Phoenix/Scottsdale has a ton of singles looking to meet. The Phoenix/Scottsdale metro area offers bars, restaurants, sports, and a ton of things to do for singles. Pre-Dating Speed Dating offers one of the best places for singles in Phoenix/Scottsdale to meet other singles. We have great venues where we run our events that are convenient if you want to attend!

Do people really meet at speed dating in Phoenix/Scottsdale?

Pre-Dating Speed Dating in Phoenix/Scottsdale is by far one of the best ways to meet other singles in Phoenix/Scottsdale. According to the New York Times you have to look at 100 profiles in online dating to get someone to talk with you. You are likely to meet an average of 2-3 singles for a date by going to speed dating. It's much better odds!

How long is a speed date in Pre-Dating Speed Dating in Phoenix/Scottsdale?

Our company has perfected the time for speed dating at 6 minutes. There were companies that had speed dating events with 3 minute dates. People felt it was too fast. They also had speed dating at 8 minutes. That was too long. Pre-Dating Speed Dating in Phoenix/Scottsdale at 6 minutes is just right!

What to wear to a speed dating event?

You can't go wrong dressing up for a speed dating event in Phoenix/Scottsdale. The most important thing is appearing to be well dressed and ready to move around if you are a guy. If you are a woman, you typically will be sitting for most of the dates and not moving around. Dress professionally and make sure you are looking great, for that first impression!

At a speed dating event in Phoenix/Scottsdale how many singles will I meet

A typical speed dating event in Phoenix/Scottsdale you will meet an average of 10 singles. This is an average, depending on the popularity of speed dating in Phoenix/Scottsdale, as well as the age range or specialty events. At some events you may meet up to 14 people, but no less than 6.

In Phoenix/Scottsdale what are the typical ages of speed daters?

Pre-Dating Speed Dating in Phoenix/Scottsdale is known for a variety of ages from 20s and 30s, to 40s, 50s and 60s+. Each event has an assigned age range to allow you to find a speed dating event in Phoenix/Scottsdale that works for your age!

Where can I sign up for speed dating in Phoenix/Scottsdale?

You can start the process of signing up for an event right on this website by clicking on the mens ticket or womens ticket above. Fill out the form and pay for the event in Phoenix/Scottsdale from the form that pops up!

Should I bring a friend along for my speed date in Phoenix/Scottsdale

You are welcome to bring a friend who is not attending to support you during your speed dating event in Phoenix/Scottsdale. Often speed daters have friends waiting for them at the bar or nearby to give them more support!

What if I do not pick anybody to date at the speed dating event in Phoenix/Scottsdale?

Pre-Dating Speed Dating is different than the other speed dating companies. Even if you don't pick anybody, because nobody seemed to be right for you, we still send you a list of people who chose you. You don't have to have a mutual match to find out who likes you at our speed dating events in Phoenix/Scottsdale.

What happens next after a speed dating event in Phoenix/Scottsdale?

Pre-Dating speed dating ends with all our participants turning in their match sheets. Our company does not rely on all the participants logging in to find out who likes you. Within 24 hours you find out who has chosen you, and they find out who you have chosen. It's up to you to take the next steps!

Should I exchange information with a person at Pre-Dating Event in Phoenix/Scottsdale?

We actually frown on exchanging information at the actual event. If a person likes you, you will find out and get their information via text and email. If you decide you really don't like this person, they already have your personal information, so don't easily give out your cell and email address.

Here are some recommendations if you are going to attend a Pre-Dating speed dating event in Phoenix/Scottsdale:

  • Always try to arrive early and prepare to socialize: By introducing yourself to as many people as possible before the event officially starts, you will make a great impression.
  • Dress to impress: Making sure you are dressed up appropriately, and put effort into your appearance to make a strong first impression is always a plus.
  • Try to be authentic and engaging: Try to ask different questions. Don't just ask about jobs or where people live. Be yourself. Some suggest asking funny or nonsensical questions to break the ice and see if you have chemistry.
  • Ask questions and listen to your date: Try to pay attention to your date's answers and ask follow-up questions. This shows genuine interest and makes you stand out.
  • Flirt and compliment: If you are not good at flirting, try to flirt a little and say something nice to people. Don't be afraid to flirt and offer a genuine compliment to show your interest.
  • Avoid controversial topics: Stay away from subjects like politics or religion. Stick to lighter topics like hobbies and interests.
  • Keep alcohol drinking to a minimum: Have a drink to relax, but keep a number in your mind of when to stop. Do not get drunk. People can tell you are drunk and they will be less interested in you.
  • Stay and socialize: The people who stay after the event ends tend to have more success. While you may have already turned your sheet in, sometimes people change the choices after the event once they have had a chance to get to know you.
  • Follow up strategically: Don't get bogged down in endless messages with your dates. The best answer is to suggest a short phone call and arrange a low-key, fun activity for a first date.

Speed dating events are available in Phoenix/Scottsdale, Arizona often requiring advance registration and featuring a mix of structured one-on-one sessions and casual singles mixers. Events are typically held in public venues and may be organized for specific age ranges or interests like 20s, 30s, singles events over 40 and 50s, and singles events over 50s and 60s or age 60+. We also offer Senior, Christian, Jewish, Holidays and other types of events. To find and participate in an event, you can look for local event listings for Phoenix/Scottsdale here on Pre-Dating.com and register online. Our singles events run on weekends and week nights.

Our dating events in Phoenix/Scottsdale appeal to singles who prefer social groups, and it really is "where to meet singles in Phoenix/Scottsdale"! Phoenix/Scottsdale speed dating reviews will all say our events are well organized and well attended! So don’t wait till our singles events get filled, register today! To read our reviews, check us out on BBB where we have an A+ rating or on Yelp where we have a top rating.

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